Word reached me
today that Al Mahrer has died. I can’t
find any record of a birthdate, so I don’t even know how old he was, probably
in his late 80’s, given that he got is PhD 1954. Al was a wild & crazy guy. Also
quite annoying at times. I suppose lots
of people have Al Mahrer stories. In one of his books, he claimed his
therapy could cure cancer. Some of my Al Mahrer stories I don’t feel are
appropriate to record here, so I will just say that I was pretty outraged at
the time.
At the same
time, tonight, as I reflect on his passing, I find myself wondering how it was
in 1980 that he thought to invite Clara Hill, Bill Stiles and me to be part of
an APA symposium on the future of psychotherapy research. For some reason, he saw us as promising young
psychotherapy researchers who might have something useful to say to the rest of
the field. I don't think too many other people were paying attention to us
then. I didn't even know that about myself,
until he slapped a grandiose title ("Fitting Process Research to
Practicing Therapist"!) onto my untitled APA submission, a title that I
then felt I had to live up to.
So, in spite of the nonsense, I also think he was brilliant -- and not just for "discovering" Bill, Clara and me. He certainly changed the way I think about and do therapy and therapy research. And I'm sure that his method of bodily resonation is one of the main sources of how I think about empathy as an embodied process in which it is possible at certain times to deeply enter the client's experiential process. That means that every time one of my clients and I are able to do this, there is a wee bit of Al Mahrer there with us, in the room. He was certainly one of a kind.
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