Lovely
day for a drive up the east side of Loch Lomond, to Sallochy Forest,
where we walked up through the crumbling stone ruins of a little village
called Wester Sallochy. From there we followed a logging road and then
climbed up Dun Maoil, a hill with majestic views over Loch Lomond. It
was mostly cloudy but bits of sun shone through the clouds reflecting
off wind-scudded waves on the Loch. The walk back took us down along a
little burn filled with fast flowing but clear water from the recent
rains. We followed this with a wee walk up the West Highland Way to the
University of Glasgow field station. A lovely day!
This blog expresses my personal views and experiences, and may or may not reflect reality as others see it. It documents my years living in Scotland, 2006-2023, working as Professor of Counselling at the University of Strathclyde, as well as my continuing experiences from Dec 2016 commuting between Scotland and California. It covers Emotion-Focused Therapy news, as well as my personal and scientific experiences, and poetry
Sunday, October 06, 2013
Sallochy Forest Adventure
Lovely
day for a drive up the east side of Loch Lomond, to Sallochy Forest,
where we walked up through the crumbling stone ruins of a little village
called Wester Sallochy. From there we followed a logging road and then
climbed up Dun Maoil, a hill with majestic views over Loch Lomond. It
was mostly cloudy but bits of sun shone through the clouds reflecting
off wind-scudded waves on the Loch. The walk back took us down along a
little burn filled with fast flowing but clear water from the recent
rains. We followed this with a wee walk up the West Highland Way to the
University of Glasgow field station. A lovely day!
Emotion-Focused Therapy: Masterclasses
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Fridays, 9:30-17.30, Nov 2013 – Sept 2014
University
of Strathclyde, Glasgow
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Facilitated by
Professor Robert Elliott
The new Emotion-Focused
Therapy Masterclass Series is open to counsellors and psychotherapists (Diploma
level or above) who have completed Level Two or Level Three training in EFT. If it’s been a while since you did EFT
training, it can serve as a refresher course and enable you to catch up on more
recent developments in EFT theory, practice and training.
Each day will
feature a mix of EFT Practice Check-in (mini supervisions), brief presentations
of specialist material on EFT; video or live demonstrations; in-depth
supervision of client work; small group skill practice; and group processing. Emphasis
will be on putting EFT into practice and examining blocks to effective practice.
Participants are expected to bring client case material to each session,
in the form of either session recordings or process notes.
Sessions can be
signed up for either individually or as a six-day package. All six masterclasses will be day-long Friday
sessions, from November 2013 to September 2014, and held in the main city
centre campus of the University of Strathclyde. This course allows participants
the opportunity to work toward the expert-supervision-own-work criterion for
EFT-Individual Certification Level A (Completion of Training, 5 hrs) or Level B
(Completion of Supervision, 15 hrs) and can also be taken in place of EFT Level
3.
2013:
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Topics:
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29 November
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EFT Case
monitoring and formulation: Case formulation is a rapidly
developing topic within EFT. This session will focus on (a) methods for
systematically tracking your clients’ progress and experience of therapy; and
(b) formulation of key emotion processes and tasks for your clients. Participants are required to bring client
material for case formulation work.
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2014:
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31 January
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EFT Open Marker
Work: After EFT Practice Check-in and a review of
the main EFT tasks, much of the rest of this session will consist of small
group skill practice, as well as supervision.
Bring in material from clients who puzzle you regarding what task to
work on!
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28 March
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EFT for
Depression: EFT has been
shown to be highly effective for helping clients with depression. In this session I will provide an overview
of experiential processes in depression and key EFT tasks in depression,
including self-criticism splits, self-interruption, and unfinished
business. The session will include
videos or live demonstration, supervision of client work, and small group
skill practice. Bring in material from
your depressed clients.
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2 May
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EFT for Anxiety: There is now an integrated EFT for working with
social anxiety and other forms of anxiety difficulty. In this session I will provide an overview
of anxiety difficulties, a review of different person-centred-experiential
theories of anxiety difficulties, and the EFT approach to working with
anxiety, featuring videos or live demonstration, supervision of client work,
and small group skill practice, emphasising anxiety split work and
self-soothing. Bring in material from
your anxious clients.
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20 June
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Therapeutic
Difficulties in EFT: As with all approaches to therapy,
relational problems occur in EFT, including ruptures between client and
therapist. In this session, I present
an overview of the different types of therapeutic difficulty; a model for
processing therapist negative reactions; and key therapist strategies for
addressing these difficulties, including both personal work and relational
dialogue with clients. Bring your
therapeutic difficulties and dilemmas with clients!
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12 Sept
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EFT for Trauma: Research
indicates that EFT is a highly effective treatment for post-trauma
difficulties, including both single episode traumas and complex trauma. In this session, I present an overview of
EFT trauma theory and the application of EFT to trauma, emphasising Narrative
Retelling, emotional regulation work and Meaning Protest. The session will feature video or live
demonstration, supervision of client work, and small group skill
practice. Bring in material from your
trauma clients.
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· Enrolment is set
for a minimum of 10 and a maximum of 15.
The balance between supervision and skill practice will depend of number
of participants.
· Course fee: Regular price: Three weeks before each
session: Sign up for individual sessions at £100 each or get a discount by registering
for the whole series at £550 by 8 November.
Late registration (less than 3 weeks before each session): £120.
· The course could
be taken for continuing professional education credit.
Contact: jan.bissett@strath.ac.uk or 0141-444 8415 for further information on this training, the
facilitators, ways of applying for this course or other APT events
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Forty Years
Entry for August 18/19 2013: Wedding Anniversary poem for
Diane. This is the 500th entry of this 7-year old blog.
Part 1: Scenes from a
Wedding
1973:
We did not know what we were
Getting ourselves into
On that sticky August night
In that little white church.
There we were:
Two families, ten kids
Recipe for chaos.
I thought it a brilliant idea
To borrow my sister anna’s
Giant inflatable hand
For the receiving line.
But in the confusion it disappeared
Never to be seen again.
Forty years later it lives on,
A piece of unfinished business
Her half-birthday un-present
Binding us together.
At least one former girlfriend
Entertained my little brother
Joseph
Providing suitable distraction
For both of them.
Our LA friends were at first hurt
When they thought
They hadn’t been invited
Then greatly puzzled
By the idea of a dry Presbyterian wedding
With no alcohol, dancing
Or embarrassing speeches.
Eventually they forgave us.
We spent our first night in Livermore
Stressed and exhausted by the
Immensity of what we’d done.
Part 2: The Journey
Forty years is a long time:
Moses led his people through the wilderness
For that long.
Together, we’ve crossed
Four decades
Two generations:
LA to Glasgow
Nixon to Obama
Our 20’s to our 60’s
V-8’s to electric cars
Typewriters to iPads
Watergate to Wikileaks
Carly Simon to Lady Gaga
Fear of Flying to Life After Life
The Human Sexual
Response to gay marriage.
The insecurities of youth
to the emerging infirmities of
age
One year of marital therapy
Two children
Three countries
Seven houses or apartments
Eight cars
Later
We are still together
Although we did not know
Exactly where we were going
And generally felt unprepared
For each new phase
And piece of brokenness
Unlike Moses
We have never stopped entering
The promised land.
Part 3: The Adventure Continues
Of course there are no guarantees and
Everything is temporary
But it seems that we are still
Determined to make
The most of the time we have.
Our covenant has become
A commitment to continuing
Adventures
As if we were on some Star
Trek-like mission.
We now recognize most
Of each other’s foibles,
Blind spots, and vulnerabilities.
Just as we continue to find
And finding, recognize
Each other’s strengths, gifts,
Moments of brilliance.
It’s true
We can still drive each other crazy
With a piece of oft-endured
Stubbornness
But these knots are more likely
To bring a smile of recognition.
Like another Federation starship
Off course but also welcome.
At the same time
We are still capable of being
Surprised by each other
Each still finding in the other
An undiscovered country.
In each other’s finitude
A single look
A single touch
A single kiss
A single laugh
Feedback loop closed
Reflected each to each
Pointed toward infinity.
In so many shared singularities
We continue to find eternity
Compressed into a series
Of timeless moments
Shared.
-18/19
August 2013
Monday, June 24, 2013
Lines for a Friend
(For my long-time friend and colleague Les
Greenberg, in memory of Brenda Greenberg.
I wrote this in a restaurant in Antwerp on the day Brenda died after a
tragic traffic accident. It’s only now
that I feel I can post this, with Les’ permission.)
My mind reels with the
senselessness
of this death too soon
My heart aches for you and your
family
And the place where she is missing now
I weep for our fragile hearts and
minds
so easily torn by happenstance
Perhaps it is the gift of people like
her
with their solidity and groundedness
to make us forget this for a time
But it’s all the more painful when we
wake
to the desolation of their passing
Still I think you would not trade away
this pain
Which points the way to mind's
profoundest sense
Of what she brought, gave and left
behind
In all deepest places of your heart.
-25 April 2013
Saturday, May 18, 2013
Person-Centered/Experiential Psychotherapy for Anxiety Difficulties: Theory, Research and Practice
Entry for 17 May 2013:
Last July, about a week after my return
from California after the two months I spent helping care for my mother, I gave
my first keynote presentation to a conference of the World Association for
Person-Centered and Experiential Psychotherapies. The talk, given in Antwerp, Belgium, was the basis
for an article just published in Person-Centered
and Experiential Psychotherapies. It
combines selected results from two studies: the 2008 humanistic-experiential
psychotherapy outcome meta-analysis that Beth
Freire and I carried out with support from British Association for the
Person-Centre Approach; and the First Strathclyde Social Anxiety Project, largely
funded by grants from the New Professors Fund by the University of Strathclyde
and by Counselling Unit internal funds.
I am deeply appreciative of the help I
received in carrying out the research on which this article is based, including
the clients, volunteer therapists, students, research associates, and members
of the Social Anxiety Study Group, University of Strathclyde, 2006-2012, especially
my colleagues Brian Rodgers, Beth Freire, Susan Stephen, Lorna Carrick, Lucia
Berdondini, and Mick Cooper. In
addition, Les Greenberg and Ann Weiser Cornell made helpful contributions to
the theory sections of this article.
Finally, I have dedicated this article to the memory of my mother, Ann
Helena Kearney Elliott, 7 April 1929 – 22 June 2012.
Although the article has been available on
the publisher’s website since March, it was very nice to receive the hard copy
of it the other day.
Reference:
Elliott, R. (2013). Person-Centered-Experiential
Psychotherapy for Anxiety Difficulties: Theory, Research and Practice. Person-Centered
and Experiential Psychotherapies, 12, 14-30. DOI:10.1080/14779757.2013.767750
Abstract: Anxiety
difficulties are an increasingly important focus for person-centered-experiential
(PCE) psychotherapies. I begin by
reviewing person-centered, focusing-oriented, and emotion-focused therapy (EFT)
theories of anxiety. Next, I summarize a meta-analysis of 19 outcome studies of PCE
therapies for adults with anxiety, most commonly supportive or person-centered
therapies (PCT) carried out by cognitive behavior therapy (CBT)
researchers. The results indicate large
pre-post change but a clear inferiority to CBT.
I then summarize promising early results from an ongoing study of PCT
and EFT for social anxiety, which show large amounts of pre-post change for
both forms of PCE therapy but substantially more change for clients in the EFT
condition. I conclude with a discussion
of the implications for PCE therapy practice, including the value of process
differentiation and the possibility of developing more effective PCE approaches
for anxiety.
Saturday, April 20, 2013
Render unto CCESA
Entry for 20 April 2013:
The draft NICE guidelines for Social Anxiety (SA) were
issued last December. Anxiety
difficulties in general, and social anxiety in particular, has been a bastion
for behaviour therapy and cognitive-behavioural therapy since the 1960’s and
even 1950’s. In 1976 I was learning an
early form of CBT, working with a client with social anxiety. Over several weeks, I had taken her through
progressive relaxation and we had constructed a hierarchy of
social-interpersonal fears. One day,
about halfway through the hierarchy, she suddenly became overwhelmed, burst
into tears, and ran out of room. I
followed her out into the hallway, where she stood, crying. I asked her if she would be willing to come
back in and tell me what had happened.
She said that she would if we stopped with the hierarchy. I was happy to do so, and we then worked for
many months in a broadly psychodynamic manner, including exploring her fear of
abandonment as a child. I can no longer remember whether her social anxiety had
improved much by the end of our work, but I do remember that she was less
depressed and felt better about herself.
Up to this point, I had been somewhat enamoured with behaviour therapy
and had even received training in cognitive therapy (this was before Beck’s
1979 book). This however was the beginning of the end for me and CBT.
I thought of this last December when the draft guidelines
came out. Two years earlier, I had
applied to serve on the Guideline Development Group for Social Anxiety. I was offered a place; however, after several
exchanges with the person organising it, it became clear to me that they weren’t
willing to look beyond what they considered to be “good quality RCT
evidence”. “Why wouldn’t we want to look
at all the evidence? “ I asked. “There’s no need”, was the answer. “What about emerging treatments? Wouldn’t practitioners want to know about
this?”, I wanted to know. “That’s not
the mandate”, they said. Actually, I’d
read the guidelines for guideline development groups, and had been briefed
previously, so I knew that this wasn’t accurate. Instead, it meant that they had no intention
of allowing any other kind of evidence to be considered. I said I’d think about it.
Eventually, after further reflection and consultation, I
decided to resign from the NICE Social Anxiety Guideline Development Group
before it even started. At the time, it
was not that long since my cancer surgery, and I really had to ask myself
whether, given my limited energy, I wanted to spend the next 18 months of my
life banging heads with the various hard-science folks on the committee. In the end, I realised that I could do more
good by using that time to carry on with my own research on social anxiety. The
result of my efforts was the integrated EFT model of SA that emerged with our
last wave of clients.
So now I was seeing the result of the committee’s work and
my decision not to take part. Reading
the draft guideline, I was not at all surprised to see CBT proclaimed as the
pre-eminent psychosocial treatment for social anxiety. This has long been clear from the existing
literature, with the Heimberg and Clark-Wells models being given equal weight
in the draft guidelines. What did
surprise me was that Interpersonal Psychotherapy (IPT) and psychodynamic
psychotherapy were listed as second-line treatments, on the strength of only
two RCTs each. Hmm…. I thought… I’ve got
half of an RCT already: Our recent
treatment development study was partially randomised between EFT and
Person-Centred Therapy. I began to feel
somehow obligated to at least try for an RCT on EFT for SA.
As a result I started talking to people about a possible RCT
comparing the version of EFT I’d developed for SA over the past 5 years, with
one of the standard versions of CBT for SA.
One thing led to another, and eventually Richard Golsworthy and Tania
Saninno (from Glasgow Caledonian University) and Rachel McLeod (from the NHS
and University of Glasgow) agreed to work with me, Lorna Carrick and Susan
Stephen to put together such as study, focusing on early career
psychotherapists/counsellors within 5 years of their main professional
training. It was a lot of work; it has
eaten up large amount of my time over the past month in particular, not to
mention the anxiety about whether we’d actually be able to pull this together
in time for the 12 April deadline.
Finally, about 8pm on the 10th of April, I
clicked on the Send button and submitted the proposal. It turns out that RCTs today have to have a
cute acronym-based title, so ours is called “Comparison of
Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy and Emotion-Focused Therapy for Social Anxiety”,
abbreviated CCESA, as in “Render unto Caesar”.
I have no idea whether this will be funded or not. Frankly, given that only about 10% of
submitted grants are funded today in most countries, it’s not terribly
likely. However, to quote T.S. Eliot,
“But perhaps neither gain nor loss./ For us, there is only the trying. The rest of not our business.”
At any rate, here’s the abstract from our proposal:
Social Anxiety (SA) is a
common, chronic psychiatric problem characterized by social withdrawal,
significant psychological distress, and educational/employment difficulties. In
NHS settings, resources and choices for effective treatment for SA are
currently limited. In a pilot partially
randomised study we developed a promising SA-specific form of
Person-centred/humanistic psychotherapy called Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT),
aimed at reducing SA by enhancing client self-compassion; we found large
amounts of client pre-post change, superior to a comparison treatment and
equivalent to comparable studies of CBT and medication. We are seeking funding
for a pilot RCT study comparing this new treatment to a NICE-recommended Cognitive-Behavioural
Therapy (CBT) based on the Heimberg model. Two groups of early career
psychotherapists will be trained in the use of these specialist models for SA,
with 52 clients assigned randomly either to CBT or EFT for up to 20
sessions. Target outcome measures will
assess SA symptoms and individualised presenting problems.
Sunday, April 07, 2013
My Mother’s 84th Birthday/Science My Mom Taught Me
Entry to 7 April 2013:
I’ve been working late to finish a grant proposal, so it’s
well after midnight in Scotland, Monday, the 8th of April. In California, however, it’s still Sunday, 7
April, my mother’s birthday. Last year, my
siblings and I gathered at Anna’s house on this day to celebrate our mom’s 83rd
birthday. We knew something was wrong
then, and we also knew at the time that she believed that she had reached her
last year, her 84th, the completion of her 3rd Saturn
Return. What neither she nor we knew
then was that she would be dead by the end of June, a few days past the summer
solstice. So tonight her children are marking what would have been our
mother’s 84th birthday by reflecting on her passing. A little while ago, my brother Conal and
sister Louisa checked with poignant reflections about both of our parents. This is my contribution to the process.
A year ago, on her birthday, I read her 75th
birthday poem to her again and gave her a mobile of multi-coloured butterflies
made from bird feathers to represent the final image in the poem. After she died I brought this mobile back
with me to Scotland to remember her by, and it’s in my living room now, a bit
of her.
I know that she and my dad are in my head and heart, a part
of me. They are my psychological and spiritual DNA and of course their actual DNA is in
every cell of my body. (And my mitochondrial DNA? That’s all my mom’s, matrilineal descent, you
know?) Nevertheless, I still miss her
physical presence and the opportunity to experience the unpredictability of her
continuing evolution. So tonight it’s a
kind of intermediate stop on the way to her year’s mind, an interim Kaddish at
which I, along with my siblings, remember fondly, longingly, and with deep
gratitude and joy for what she gave us.
Bittersweet, like the strong chocolate that she loved.
I can’t think of a better way for me to remember her than by
offering again the poem I wrote 9 years ago for her 75th birthday:
Science My Mom Taught
Me
(For her 75th birthday, April 7, 2004)
1. Science as Love
and Relationship
A good place to start is that ancient photograph,
Recently rediscovered, from 1950:
There the two of you are, the same age
As the youngest of my grad students.
Both of you are tall, almost toothpick thin.
He is looking at the camera, tight jeans and shirt,
Like a rebel with cause to smile.
But you are looking down, through large glasses,
Your face framed by billowing hair,
With toothy grin, and your arms
Awkwardly but carefully wrapped round
A very small bundle.
The two of you look like nothing
So much as a couple of computer nerds
From half a century in the future.
Code geeks, rolling out your first promising program,
Ready for beta-testing.
But the code is genetic,
The language is life,
And the program is … me.
2. True Science is
Risky
Although I learned magic from my dad,
It now seems clear to me that it was you
From whom I first learned science,
To which I have now devoted so much of my life.
But yours was never the normal, safe kind,
Digging away at the coal face
In the mines of knowledge,
Like Disney’s happy dwarves.
No, not that kind, but instead
The one that goes off to Far Tortuga,
Toward distant Galapagos unknown,
In search of the evolution of the human soul.
For you, big ideas have never been too big:
The nature of reality; the journey of the soul;
Jung’s famous paper on flying saucers;
The archetype of the Mandala: As without, so within.
Instead of Aristotle … Plato’s forms;
Instead of Archimedes … Pythagorus’s numbers;
Instead of Moses’ law … the Kabbalah’s secrets;
Instead of chemistry …alchemy’s transformations.
Oh, you did chemistry, too, at least early on:
You would disappear for hours,
Into your laboratory at the back of the house,
Full of strange smells and odd bits:
Broken glass, mosaic pieces,
Rolls of wallpaper, bolts of cloth,
Cans of precursors and catalysts,
When plastics was new technology.
And you would emerge from your lair,
To confront your family with some new concoction,
Sometimes lovely, or quirky, or primitive;
At times, a disaster, but always something new.
No, for you, science has always been risky:
Working at the edge, making something new,
You have become an expert in the peril of experiment,
And I have followed you, where I could.
3. Science as
Inspiration and Passion
Your mother (my grandmother) taught me many things:
How to travel and how to be in a new place;
The importance of hard work and getting up early;
The ninety-nine percent of sweat that makes up genius.
But you taught me a far more valuable lesson:
The one percent of inspiration that redeems all the rest,
The moment of epiphany, the pattern opening,
The intensity of the new connection breaking through,
The science of cutting to the center of the world,
Of seeing what others don’t choose to see,
Of waking to awareness when others sleep,
And the flow of following the spirit far into the night.
When I see these things in myself, I recognize you.
The passion of discovery is too powerful to resist,
Even if we wanted to; the daemon must be honored;
It is ours, and we must let it speak through us or die.
4. Science as Always
Starting Anew
I find it odd that I describe my dad in a series of
narratives,
But you as a set of ideas, a paradigm, a model.
There is, however, one story that is always you,
The story in which you are always re-inventing yourself:
Child of the Depression with a single mom;
Big city girl; prep school party-er;
Young, anxious mother and seamstress;
Small town society woman in a flat land.
But your life makes a strange turn: You take up philosophy;
You quit smoking just because you feel like it;
You return to religion and start teaching Sunday school;
You become a small business owner and a writer.
Years pass: You’re CEO of a large and raucous family,
With the habit of taking in strays (both human and animal);
And you’ve gradually evolved into a spiritual leader
Of a small but loyal group of friends.
Then, your life turns again:
Warned in a vision
Of the impending end of civilization, you become
A gentle survivalist and take your family
Into the mountains, like Noah waiting for her flood
You seal several tons of wheat into cans,
Which are still there after twenty-five years.
Well, we can’t get everything right, but now you live
In a beautiful little valley: Murray Creek.
Now you are matriarch to three generations and 60 acres.
A combination of Ariadne, Daedalus and Theseus,
You become a labyrinth designer and unwinder
Of ritual journey spaces of stones, words and image.
Reading widely and deeply, you map the interweaving
Stories of your own and humanity’s spiritual development,
Join a religious order, become a spritual director,
And finally, start a Crone Circle of wise women.
Curiously, all these things somehow fit together:
Clearly, you’ve never stopped starting over;
For you, science is leaving behind what no longer works,
A selfsame process of adding on, differentiating,
elaborating,
Just as you are always the same person,
The passionate, intellectual adventurer, the one
Who keeps transforming herself, like an endless succession
Of butterflies, emerging one from the other.
Photo by Conal Elliott, Upper House, Murray Creek, 27 March 2013, by permission.
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